“I wanted words, but all I heard was nothing”

I know that I over-think. I don’t do it to come up with a solution of some sort because often times, I know that it comes to no conclusion. I can make a big deal out of something insignificant and small. Right now, I think I have winded myself up in the heart of confusion, which is inevitably making its way to misery. Everything just kind of happened 3 months ago all at once and I have spent 3 solid months…well… just thinking. Thinking of “how it could be” and “why it would be” and “what it can be” and “where it will be”. I cannot help it. Now 3 months later, here I am, fed up with this obscurity. If people unveil the mask that is my outer tranquility right now, they’d reveal a circle of contradictory thoughts. Thoughts that have left me with nothing but to this pathetic state. It’s unhealthy and I admit it. Now that school has started, it can serve as a distraction… but before that can happen, I need to make one last desperate rant:

So there are only 3 options.

1. To think some more and go into insanity
2. To stop thinking and let things be
3. To confront the situation.

# 1 is unfavourable for obvious reasons. # 2 is what I’ve been attempting at, but still unsuccessful (therefore deemed impossible). So I’m left with #3. Seeing how I have too much pride and dignity, or the lack of courage and maturity, I can only confront the situation in secrecy: Right here! Hopefully this will be a stepping stone in which I can allow myself to move on a little.

To the 3 men of my summer 2011: (ha ha…)

  • You left me in devastation. I can’t say that I wasn’t prepared for something like this, in fact, I saw it coming perhaps years ago. But whenever it would’ve happened, it is always too soon in my heart. I hope I have never disappointed you. I think about you more than you know in my entire life. I wish I could do something to help. You are so strong to me, you are so wise to me, you are so noble to me. You love me in a way I cannot understand. Thank you for being proud of me. I will never forget our moments, I promise.
  • You left me disappointed at first, then indifferent, and now a bit of both. I tried to reason it through, because in the norm of things, it is quite reasonable. But not to me. I still dwell on this because I know this cannot be your value. I don’t expect anything more than what you have offered to me. I understand in the heat of the moment, we say things that later mean nothing, but when you said that you would do your best to help me whenever I needed it, I was touched and I believed you. In fact, I still trust and believe you to this day. Well, you were the first person I needed to talk to.. and I couldn’t anymore.
  • You left me confused beyond belief. Silly right? At times it’s fun and other times it’s frustrating. You have made some days very exciting, and some days very depressing. We’re playing this stupid game that isn’t going anywhere and all we do is wait. I wonder what goes on in your mind. I’m tired of trying to read you. I feel ever so stupid being obsessed over you. I don’t know if you’re in the same state, but maybe I’m the only one pulling my hair out. You are the least of my worries right now, yet my biggest. I want to just stop thinking about you. Really, I do. But more than that, I want a clear answer from you.

Done. I’m done…. :)



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  1. Option 2 is not impossible =), trust me. The moment you start implementing Option 2, that’s when things happen without you realizing it, or you can do like me and go ahead with Option 3. Pride and dignity lead to nothing…

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